Classy Confidence // What it is & 3 tips to get it

I may be biased, but I’m fairly certain I grew up with the best grandmas and mom ever!............ They were kind, strong and sure of themselves.

 

They all had what I like to call Classy Confidence.

 

They worked hard for what they had.  They did what they had to do.  They kept their values, they were kind to others, but at the same time they would not let anyone walk over them.

 

I feel like this is lost among a lot of women these days.

 

It seems like most the time women don’t realize their worth at all and have zero confidence…... or they were pampered a little too much and have way too much confidence.

Here’s the thing, there’s a fine line between being confident and having an ego.  

You don’t want to have the latter, trust me, it’s not cute. 

 

So how do you get classy confidence…

  • Know your strength
    • You are stronger than you think and you can handle far more than you know…. You just have to believe in yourself more.

 

  • Be a good person & do your best….but know that you’re not the best.
    • This is the key to keeping your confidence classy and not letting it turn into an ego.  Always.... Always be a good person and be kind to others whenever you can.  Always strive to do the best you can, but know that you’re not the best thing ever.  Basically, just stay grounded.

 

  • Always be thankful
    •  Always be thankful for what you have.  Many times people who have egos are also entitled…. That isn’t cute either.  Be thankful, but don’t be braggy (is that even a word?!?… we’re just going to roll with it).

 

Classy confidence is something that is lacking in most women today, but I think it’s time to bring it back!


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